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Psychological Distancing for Self-Control

Create psychological distance from a temptation or conflict by talking to yourself in the third person, often using your own name. You can also mentally step back with perspective-taking exercises like imagining the situation from far away or as if it were a scene in a movie. This distance makes emotions feel less immediate, which can improve self-control and emotional regulation.

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And so many of the most effective strategies in self-control require either physically distancing yourself, as you've already talked about, or psychologically distancing myself, finding ways to either to activate the mindsets that I have when the thing is distant.

huberman · Master Self Control & Overcome Procrastination | Dr. Kentaro Fujita · May 11, 2026 · 1:51:07 · open ↗
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