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Third-Person Self-Talk for Emotional Distance
When you’re working through a problem or trying to reframe a situation, talk to yourself using your own name and second-person language, as if you were advising someone else. This small shift creates psychological distance, which can make your thinking more objective and reduce emotional reactivity.
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“So I will often use my name and the second person pronoun you to try to think through a problem Ethan how are you going to manage this situation? ... when you use your name and you to work through a problem, it's automatically switching your perspective.”
huberman · How to Control Your Inner Voice & Increase Your Resilience | Dr. Ethan Kross · Nov 25, 2024 · 57:40 · open ↗
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