Behaviors

For longevity and injury management, use resistance training to maintain muscle rather than aggressively build more; current approach is a couple of sessions per week with moderate weights.

Current maintenance approach is generally one upper-body session per week and one lower-body session per week.

He intentionally reduced body weight from 250 to 230 for health reasons, believing carrying too much weight in older age is not ideal even if muscular.

He rejects 'toning' as a separate concept; the way to look firmer is to build muscle and reduce body fat.

Women may choose to add extra glute work if that is a priority area.

Hard work and effort are central; he emphasizes sweat and pushing yourself rather than seeking complexity.

Seek help when trauma is affecting mood, anxiety, behavior, sleep, or physical health. This can include talking to a professional to get to the root of the trauma when symptoms are significant.

As a young person into the early teens and beyond, engage in a variety of physical and cognitive activities rather than specializing too early.

Learn a second language and keep practicing it over time for useful face-to-face conversation and to force the brain to work.

Place the phone in a lockbox for 4 hours or even 5–9 hours to create freedom from compulsive checking.

Maintain regular activity and engagement with other people rather than retiring into passivity; ongoing activity helps keep the brain active.

Make present-self commitments that constrain future-self behavior when you know future you may act against your goals.

Get social pressure involved by meeting a buddy at the gym at a specific time or joining a group boot camp; accountability helps you show up even when tired or sore.

Use financial stakes to reinforce desired behavior or prevent undesired behavior, including aversion checks or commitment websites where you only get your money back if you meet the goal.

For people trying to stop drinking, remove all alcohol from the home rather than storing it away.

Limit cash on hand to reduce the chance of impulsive drug purchases when encountering sellers.

Set up your environment so the desired action is easier for your future self to perform, such as putting running shoes near the door the night before.

Choose unusual activities on weekends to increase memory density and make time feel richer and longer.

Attend closely to experiences and be deliberate about what receives your attention and memory rather than letting life wash over you or letting low-value stimuli dominate.

Regularly vary routines to increase novelty, memory formation, and subjective richness of time.

Counselors working with blind students are encouraged to blindfold themselves for about seven days to experience perceptual changes.

Avoid going into social events or making judgments while hungry; eating first is framed as improving enjoyment and decision quality.

Use sports for kids and adults to learn effort-reward contingencies, how to lose, and how to persist after setbacks; competitive dance is presented as a similar alternative, and broad participation at one's level is encouraged.

Allow natural, uninstructed breathing rather than controlled breathing.

Use walking as movement practice; one example given was walking crowded streets for about two hours while staying fully embodied and trying to avoid touching anyone.

Actively train and improve eye movement rather than assuming it is already adequate.

Use a checklist of what you are trying to do, then adapt how you use your eyes accordingly, shifting between peripheral soft open gaze for awareness-oriented states and narrow focused gaze when the task calls for focus.

Use posture and head angle, including sharper angle and chin down, to influence listening.

Personally test variables such as heat, cold, light, movement, and different directions of awareness, and make the practice your own.

Use movement variations during lifting as examination rather than locking into one stance; for example, try different foot positions during curls, perform variations with eyes closed or different head posture, and notice what changes.